In Tantra the art of raising consciousness resides in the sacred sexual and spiritual merging. This can be enhanced with the exploration of sensuality, as to truly connect with another on an intimate, heart connected, soul entwined level, you must first commit to exploring and reawakening you. Owning and honouring your Divine self and all of…

  Ecstasy is Cool, it is not hot, sweaty and steamy.   When a woman opens herself from within, her sexual experiences become cool, even if they get wild at times. Though don’t confuse ‘cool’ for ‘cold’, they are not one and the same. Coolness is about being firmly and deeply rooted in yourself first…

  Do you hear a calling to awaken as a Tantrika? Do you feel a deep yearning to walk along the path of Divine healing of the feminine and masculine? To polarise the two sacred parts of the universal human experience?   If this speaks to you, you are now asked to first balance these two energies…

  What are you doing today for your Soul, Spiritual practice and your Tribe – to be of Service?   This is a question I live and work by. The reason it is so important is that it covers the three fundamental relationships in your life that you want to invest in daily; for balance,…

Fresh long stem roses, raw chocolates, silk and lack lingerie, jewellery, a candle lit dinner for two … perhaps this is your dream come true. When it comes to cupids day for celebrations we love to give and receive. Gifts can come in many forms; boxed and tied with a bow, a magical experience, a…

The times of peak moon phases have been known to coincide with changes in our moods, behaviour, our bodies – and naturally within this our libido; sexual desires and activity. If the mystical path interests you Sacred sex by the full or new/dark moon can align with ‘birthing’ ideas into reality and letting go of…

  Today many women and men don’t know what ‘normal sex’ or ‘making love’ looks like let alone feels like since our society has become so drenched in porn.  Amid its effects porn creates a distorted reality of sex, including a distortion of  female genitalia. It can also puts false expectations on the body and performance…

  In this day and age the rise of zero commitment, one night stands and keeping things a la casual are higher than ever. Think flirty texting / sexting, holding hands (probably in private) or only around select friends, time together (also often in private), sex (usually at random hours of night and morning and…